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Fokus pada Kemampuan Diri Sendiri

Kita mungkin selama ini terlalu sering melihat keberhasilan orang lain. Awalnya kita melihat keberhasilan mereka sebagai motivasi bagi kita, namun karena kita terlalu fokus pada keberhasilan mereka, menjadikan kita sulit melihat apa yang sudah kita lakukan.

Pengalaman saya selama ini adalah saya terlalu lama melihat keberhasilan teman-teman, terlalu lama mengamati, sehingga saya tidak segera bertindak.

Namun paradigma ini saya ubah setelah saya menyadari akan hal ini. Saya berhenti membanding-bandingkan hasil yang saya peroleh dengan hasil yang diperoleh teman-teman saya.

Apapun hasil yang telah kita capai, hal itu merupakan pemberitahuan bahwa yang lebih baik masih mungkin kita capai.

Fokus pada kemampuan diri dan hasil yang telah dicapai untuk membuat diri ini lebih bersyukur dan optimis untuk memperoleh hasil yang lebih baik kedepannya.

Banyak hal yang mudah bagi kita, namun sulit bagi orang lain. Fokuskan perhatian kita pada hal tersebut, Anda memiliki potensi menjadi maestro dan pemenang dibidang itu.

Dengan memusatkan perhatian pada apa yang kita miliki, potensi yang ada dalam diri, maka kita akan merasa lebih percaya diri dan melihat diri ini berarti. Lalu gunakan dan kembangkan segala potensi ini untuk membangun diri kita.

Apapun pencapaian yang telah saya dapatkan hingga saat ini, hal yang lebih baik dari ini masih mungkin saya capai. Tetap pelihara semangat dan fokus pada kemampuan diri.

Sedikit curahan hati gadis yang tersakiti

I miss the times when we'll be together, I miss our beautiful moments
I miss when you hug me if i'm feel cold and my body temperature was rises and your hugs make me feel better :)
I miss when you angry to me if i forgot to drink my drugs
I miss when you angry to me if i forgot to eat
I miss when you angry if i'm sick .
I miss when you forbid me to eat icecream if i'm colds, and you promised for me if I returned to be healthy again, you will buy an icecream, and that icecream it's just for me
I miss when we join hands, and you keep and protect me from anything that would threaten the safety of my life
I miss the moment when you kissed my cheek and i kiss your cheek too .
I miss when you and i was sat together on one chair . tell a lot of jokes for me, talked with me, and when you and i were face to face, etc
and all our sweet story !
before we end this relationship, i feel really happy if i'm with you :)
i feel i'm complete if i'm with you.
you and i, together, having a lovely relationship, and that relationship is forever .
and i feel you're a piece of my life .
but now ?
it's really impossible to said, THIS RELATIONSHIP IS FOREVER
i'm gonna miss you so much, miss our story, our journey
I always shed a tear when I remember something about our stories
but that before i know something, something fake, fake !
turns out, the man's love is fake love
Initially, he comes to reinforce my life . he removes any distress, disappointment and sadness of my heart . and presents a new love for me
but now?
he came to add to the chaos of my life
he actually increased the frustration and sadness of my heart
so all of a sudden, he pulled back the hope that he gave to me
i feel distress again
i feel disappointment again
i feel sadness again, again, and again
i want to cry, but if i'm crying it's just make me loss and i lost all time, an efective time . and efective time to study

now, i'm realize you're a liar men and your love for me is really fake ! i'm stupid if i'm still loving you, and i think it's true ! but the reality, i'm still loving you dear . i'm like a donkey . stupid and silly . stuck in the same mistake a second time. you hurt my heart and always make me sad, but why i always loving you ?
my little heart says i should and must fixed to loving you, and survive with my feeling to you . but why ?? it's really freak ! i don't know what's the meaning of this statement
i'm really very very confused now . what must i do for this ?
survive to loving you or i must to leaving you and our memories now ?
i'm really miss our memories, our story, and our journey to study to love eachother .
i always remember we start this from we are being a brother and sister, after that we was found a little taste of fit and comfortable and after that we have a lot of journey of love . it was a little story, but having a lot of meaning . i want you back for me again dear :'(
start with new story, and new feeling
I promise, i want to change my attitute . the good less attitude . give me one more chance
I promise I will not be a girl who was grumpy again like what you want from me
i'm a grumpy girl, and you hate a grumpy girl, right ?
so, i promise to change all, it just for you
cause i'm really loving you
please, come back again to me, and please don't leave me alone
please dear, until this time, i can't remove, remove that feeling from my heart
i hope you read this

maaf kalo bahasanya acak"an :p
masih belajar :)
merci